My brother likes to look at me naked in the shower and take pictures

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I take a shower, my brother takes nude pictures of me on his iPhone to turn me on.

I think he is autistic because he knows no boundaries. I told him to stop, but he doesn’t understand why it’s so wrong.


It makes me want to hit him

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It makes me want to hit him. He is 20, I am his 18 year old brother and we still live at home with our mother.

Now I’m wondering if I should start taking pictures of him in the bathroom too so he realizes how annoying it is.

He has always had problems with communication and normal relationships.

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When I try to talk about it, he just laughs.

I love him, but I can’t take much more of this.

DEIDRE SAYS: Lock the bathroom door. If there is no lock, ask your mother if you can fix one.

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Please don’t hit him or take revenge by taking pictures of him. That will only cause more problems.

Talk to your mother and contact the National Autistic Society ( It has forums where you can chat with others.#

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