Cola Falana is an artist who hails straight from Southside Atlanta, Georgia, but she is known for something other than music. She used to be in a relationship with legendary rapper Gucci Mane for 13 years. During an interview with the progress report, she pondered their relationship, revealing details that no one but herself had known.

When asked what it was like to date “the real” Gucci Mane, Cola replied, “It was never a dull moment.” She went on to reminisce about how their bond was similar to that of a brother and sister: “I lived with his mom when he wasn’t there… the sh*t was gangsta. The sh*t was love. “

Since they had been together for almost ten years, getting married had become an option for the two. “He’s not getting down on one knee,” Cola began, “it was just a hood proposal.” However, their engagement fell through and Gucci eventually married his now-wife, Keyshia Ka’Oir.

When asked when they last had a conversation, Cola said, “The last time I spoke to him was probably a week before his wedding.” With respect to his current relationship, Cola admitted that she was the one closing things off. “It wasn’t bad blood,” she continued, “it was like… this is something we have to do for each other so we can grow.”

She concluded her response by saying that Gucci probably didn’t respect her decision at first, but “it is what it is.”

Watch the clip below and watch the entire video where Cola talked about going to jail for fraud, her craziest moment with Gucci, and more.